Connection through Brazilian Jiu Jitsu
- Thomas Morse

- Aug 2
- 3 min read
When our learners at Citizens Academy, an Acton Academy, voiced their curiosity about Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (BJJ), we didn’t hesitate. Their excitement was the spark, and our flexible, learner-driven model turned it into a blaze. Unlike traditional schools, where rigid schedules and pre-set curricula dictate the day, we let our young heroes steer. They wanted to explore BJJ—not just for fitness, but for the mental grit and practical skills it promised. So, we made it happen, inviting a local police officer and BJJ purple belt to guide them through hands-on defense and grappling lessons. What unfolded was more than a class—it was a journey that forged resilience, deepened bonds, and showcased the power of non-traditional education.

The decision came straight from the learners. During a studio discussion, a few shared how they’d watched BJJ videos online, intrigued by its blend of strategy and strength. Others chimed in, curious about self-defense in a world that feels unpredictable. In a conventional school, this interest might be sidelined, relegated to an after-school club or dismissed entirely. But at Citizens Academy, we trust our learners to guide their path. Our guides—never called teachers—stepped back, letting the group shape the idea. They proposed inviting an expert, and we connected with a local officer whose purple belt credentials and real-world experience made him the perfect fit.
Over several weeks, our studio transformed. Mats replaced our normal seating, and learners gathered to learn more about dealing with another person who is trying to impose their will upon you. The officer didn’t just teach techniques; he shared stories from his work, weaving lessons on awareness, de-escalation, and discipline into every session. No one was forced to join—every learner chose to dive in, fueled by their own curiosity. They stumbled, fell, and laughed through failures, discovering that struggle is the root of growth. The boys were most excited for these lessons, but the girls were equally committed to doing their best and showing they weren't pushovers. This is what Acton does: it connects real-world challenges to lifelong skills.
The impact went beyond the mats. BJJ became a catalyst for connection. Learners who once exchanged quick hellos during breaks started lingering together, forming tighter bonds. We found them hanging out together on a bean bag chair they used to fight over. They collaborated on projects and even set up informal practice sessions during free time to refine their moves and play practice games and drills their instructor provided. These weren’t just friendships—they were partnerships built on mutual respect and vulnerability, the kind rarely nurtured in traditional classrooms where social time is limited to chaotic lunch breaks and hallways.
Resilience was the other gift. BJJ isn’t easy—it demands focus, patience, and the humility to lose and try again. Learners faced sore muscles and frustrating moments but kept showing up. Our guides encouraged them to reflect, asking, “What did you learn from that loss?” or “How can you adapt next time?” This mindset—embracing failure as a teacher—is at the heart of Citizens Academy. Unlike schools obsessed with grades and compliance, we celebrate the messy, vital process of growth. One learner shared how surviving a tough sparring match gave him the courage to speak up during a town hall, proposing a new studio rule that the group adopted.
This BJJ experience captures why parents should consider non-traditional systems like Acton. The world is changing fast—AI, automation, and global challenges demand adaptability, not rote memorization. Traditional schools, with their rigid structures, often stifle curiosity, chaining young minds to desks and outdated goals. At Citizens Academy, we gamify learning, use technology for personalized plans, and let learners chase what lights them up. Our guides don’t dictate answers; they ask questions that empower students to find their own. The result? Young heroes who learn how to learn, tackle hard things, and build communities of character.
Parents, imagine your child not just enduring school but thriving in it—resilient, connected, and ready for whatever lies ahead. BJJ was just one adventure, but it shows what’s possible when learners lead. At Citizens Academy, we’re not preparing kids for tests; we’re equipping them to solve problems, build meaningful relationships, and discover their unique gifts. If you’re ready to rethink education and ignite your child’s passion, join us. Schedule an information session or start your audition today. The future belongs to those who dare to learn differently.
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